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Q&A#67 Should Christians be Friends with Non Christians?

Alastair Roberts

Q&A#67 Should Christians be Friends with Non Christians?

October 8, 2018
Alastair Roberts
Alastair Roberts

Today's question: "What is your opinion on close-knit churches that teach members to not become close friends with outsiders/heathens? They teach to be courteous and you can have friendly acquaintances with outsiders, but teach that friendship with the world is enmity with God."

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